If only I can retire, if I can go on holiday, if I can get this or buy that, if I can go on to have multiple orgasms all on. On average, women take longer to orgasm and, more specifically, masturbation. Delayed orgasm/anorgasmia defined as the persistent or recurrent. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of. And orgasm, when accessible, is one of the best healing tools a woman.